Thursday 8 June 2023

About Female Ejaculation

Female ejaculation has something of a mythical reputation. Is famale ejaculation normal like male ejaculation, Yes it and why not? Female can arouse themselves and can ejaculate like males. Vaginal ejaculation is a secretion of fluid from the Skene's glands which is often called as "the vaginal prostrate" and the squirting is the larger expulsion of of fluid from the bladder which resembles the urine.

Is the squirting is the same as urination? In the first major research researchers found urea, creatinine and uric acid concentrations in the squirting fluid which are all major components of the urine but at the same time vaginal ejaculation is milky fluid and it was not of the same components as of urine. Therefore they were of the view that Squir fluid and Vaginal Ejaculation are two different fluids. 

So, Vaginal ejaculated fluid is a thick, whitish fluid resembling diluted milk that contains some of the same components as semen like PSA and prostatic acid phosphatase. Some researchers found that female ejaculation comes from the bladder while some ladies or volunteers report that sensation of ejaculation is akin to urinating for them.

Research show that only 10% to 30% of women experience involuntary ejaculation, according to the International Society for Sexual Medicine. Because they don't know how this expulsion is triggered, it's impossible to know at this time whether some women may be more or less prone to experience it, With that said, it looks like G-spot stimulation is commonly associated with vaginal ejaculation or squirting so if you’re interested in experimenting, that is a good place to start.

Lastly, your pleasure in bed definitely doesn't depend on your ability to ejaculate or not.

Thursday 1 June 2023

The Mystery of Female Orgasm!!

There is a lot of discussions and censorship with anything relating to female and especially female sexuality all over the globe. As it may be known to only ladies that female orgasm is so lovely that every lady want to get it during the foreplay or during intimation and it has a very good impact on their mental, physical and sexual health. But there is a huge discussion on the male orgasm and some shy discussion on female orgasm... Why?

In the older days or a lots of years ago,  women who were prone to emotional outbursts were diagnosed with “Hysteria”, and were often treated by the doctor, essentially administering an orgasm to the patient. At that It was one of the reason for the discovery of old version of primitive vibrator which was helpful in the treatment of hysteria. That vibrator was developed as a electric massager which can be used to massage other areas of body in addition to treating hysteria or manual orgasm.

Let’s define what an orgasm is. An orgasm is the release of tension at the height of sexual response. It is when you reach peak arousal and then experience a release. This is followed by contractions of the pelvic floor. It can feel pleasurable, just fine, or like a sneeze. No two orgasms are exactly alike! Multiple orgasms are orgasms that happen in succession—typically within a few seconds or minutes of each other. This all comes back to those juicy little nerve-fibers.
Sex should be about pleasure—the journey, rather than the destination. Sex should be about pleasure—the journey, rather than the destination. Whether it leads to one orgasm, multiple orgasms, or zero orgasms, whatever feels good to you is perfectly fabulous.

The other side of the coin is interesting. The fact that males have the proper right to own their sexuality and their sexual needs but what about females? We all know that the female orgasm is achievable through masturbation and solo play, but why it is so difficult to achieve during intercourse? To answer this question, all of us are dumb becouse in our society female arousal is not prioritized. Many girls or women have been brought up with the notion that masturbation is dirty and good girls must not indulge in it and also not in social media but we believe that everyone has a right to their bodies and that sexual health should be prioritized.

Tuesday 2 May 2023

Masturbation is great for female health

 Masturbation doesn’t have to lead to orgasm. But if you’re in the mood and want that endorphin rush, there are a few things you can do to help your body achieve the Big O (orgasm):

  • Set the mood: The setting can sometimes make a big difference in whether or not you’ll have a good solo session. Think about turning down the lights and listening to relaxing music to get the mood going.
  • Add some lubricant: When you’re aroused, your body self-lubricates, making masturbation a much smoother and pleasurable experience. But sometimes, that may not be enough (or it may not happen at all!). So keep a tube of lubricant on hand to increase your pleasure.
  • Let your mind wander: It may go without saying, but you can turn yourself on by simply thinking about that hottie you met last week. Let your mind fantasize about people or situations that send tingles down your spine.
  • Take your time: You don’t have to rush masturbation. Play around with techniques and take your time to enjoy all of the sensations you’re feeling throughout your body.
  • Explore erogenous zones: Playing with your erogenous zones — think your nipples, ears, or thighs — can shoot sparks of pleasure throughout your body.
  • Consider erotica or pornography: It’s fun to let your mind wander, but you don’t always have to use your imagination. If you want to turn up the heat, watch a sexy video.

The visible part of the clitoris is a pearl-sized organ, often covered by a hood, that’s found at the top of your vulva where the two inner lips meet. The glans of the clitoris is about the size of a pearl/pea, but the structure itself is much more complex and extensive.
Your clitoris is packed with thousands of nerve endings, making it the most sensitive part of your genitals. That’s why most people with a vagina experience orgasm by stimulating their clitoris. 

Massage the fleshy area on the top of your pubic bone, then run your fingers along the outer the outer and inner lips of your vulva. Start rubbing the clitoris through the hood. Find the rhythm that makes you feel good. Move your fingers faster and harder once in mood and clitoris becomes wet. Intensify the feeling and try to get the orgasm.

Despite common myths, most ladies or especially teenaged girls have a hard time climaxing with vaginal stimulation. That doesn’t mean it can’t be fun, though! Penetrating your vagina with your fingers can bring you immense pleasure, even if you don’t orgasm. But if you want to see stars, experiment with stimulating your G-spot — a pleasure point on your vaginal wall — with consistent, heavy pressure. First massage your vaginal opening, insert your fingers slowly and move them in a circular motion or on out motion. Then you can increase the speed and pressure as the good vibrations begin to build. You may feel an explosive orgasm.
The reflection is a great way to discover your body and what turns you on.
Sit in front of a full-length mirror with a big tube of lube. Pour the lube all over your body — your breasts, belly, inner thighs, and vulva — and start sliding your hands over these erogenous zones.
Pinch, squeeze, pull, tug, rub — do whatever feels good and pay attention to what gets you hot and bothered.
Masturbation is a fun, sexy, and safe way to explore your desires and learn what turns you on. Plus, there are so many health benefits to self-pleasure (Reduced stress! Better sleep! Sexual release!) that there’s no reason not to sneak in some pleasure every day.

Sunday 20 June 2021

Sexual Attraction and Orientation

As people pass from childhood into their teen years and beyond, their bodies develop and change. So do their emotions and feelings.

Adolescence Is a Time of Change

During the teen years, the hormonal and physical changes of puberty usually mean people start noticing an increase in sexual feelings. It's common to wonder and sometimes worry about new sexual feelings.

It takes time for many people to understand who they are and who they're becoming. Part of that involves better understanding of their own sexual feelings and who they are attracted to.

What Is Sexual Orientation?

Sexual orientation is the emotional, romantic, or sexual attraction that a person feels toward another person. There are several types of sexual orientation; for example:

  • Heterosexual. People who are heterosexual are romantically and physically attracted to members of the opposite sex: Heterosexual males are attracted to females, and heterosexual females are attracted to males. Heterosexuals are sometimes called "straight."
  • Homosexual. People who are homosexual are romantically and physically attracted to people of the same sex: Females who are attracted to other females are lesbian; males who are attracted to other males are often known as gay. (The term gay is sometimes used to describe homosexual individuals of either sex.)
  • Bisexual. People who are bisexual are romantically and physically attracted to members of both sexes.
  • Asexual. People who are asexual may not be interested in sex, but they still feel emotionally close to other people.

During the teen years, people often find themselves having sexual thoughts and attractions. For some, these feelings and thoughts can be intense and seem confusing. That can be especially true for people who have romantic or sexual thoughts about someone who is the same sex they are. "What does that mean," they might think. "Am I gay?"

Being interested in someone of the same sex does not necessarily mean that a person is gay — just as being interested in someone of the opposite sex doesn't mean a person is straight. It's common for teens to be attracted to or have sexual thoughts about people of the same sex and the opposite sex. It's one way of sorting through emerging sexual feelings.

Some people might go beyond just thinking about it and experiment with sexual experiences with people of their own sex or of the opposite sex. These experiences, by themselves, do not necessarily mean that a person is gay or straight.

The Importance of Talking

For people of all sexual orientations, learning about sex and relationships can be difficult. It can help to talk to someone about the confusing feelings that go with growing up — whether that someone is a parent or other family member, a close friend or sibling, or a school counselor.

It's not always easy to find somebody to talk to. But many people find that confiding in someone they trust (even if they're not completely sure how that person will react) turns out to be a positive experience.

In many communities, youth groups can provide opportunities for LGBT teens to talk to others who are facing similar issues. Psychologists, psychiatrists, family doctors, and trained counselors can help them cope — confidentially and privately — with the difficult feelings that go with their developing sexuality. They also help people find ways to deal with any peer pressure, harassment, and bullying they might face.

Whether gay, straight, bisexual, or just not sure, almost everyone has questions about physically maturing and about sexual health — like if certain body changes are "normal," what's the right way to behave, or how to avoid sexually transmitted infections (STIs). It's important to find a doctor, nurse, counselor, or other knowledgeable adult to be able to discuss these issues with.

Is Masturbation Healthy?

Lots of people masturbate! Even if they don't talk about it, it’s common for people of any gender or age to do it. Even before puberty, children sometimes discover that touching their genitals feels good. If you have kids and notice them touching their genitals, let them know that masturbating is completely normal, but something they should do in private.

People masturbate for different reasons — it helps them relax, they want to understand their body better, they want to release sexual tension, or their partner isn’t around. But most people masturbate because it feels good. Many people think that masturbation is only something you do when you don’t have a sex partner. But both single people and people in relationships masturbate.  

Some people masturbate often, others rarely, and some people don’t masturbate at all. Different people masturbate in different ways, for different reasons. Masturbation is a totally personal decision, and there’s no “normal” way to go about it.

You may have heard some crazy things about masturbation being bad for you, like it makes you grow hair in weird places; it causes infertility; it shrinks your genitals; or once you start masturbating you’ll become addicted to it. None of that’s true. Masturbation isn’t unhealthy or bad for you at all. Masturbation can actually be good for your health, both mentally and physically. And it’s pretty much the safest sex out there.

Is it OK to masturbate if you’re in a relationship?

Definitely. Lots of people in relationships masturbate. Masturbating when you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean your partner isn’t satisfying you. It’s a great way to figure out what you like and what makes you have an orgasm. Then you can show or tell your partner what feels good. Talking about sex with your partner can make it more fun and can even make your relationship stronger. Some people masturbate at the same time as their partner. It’s a way to be sexual together without having any risk of STDs or pregnancy.

Monday 30 March 2020

Being Women

Being a woman, means being different... - StatusMind.com“Behind every successful man there is a woman”. Not only in the case of a man but this saying stands for the functioning of the whole world. She is said to be the ultimate strength and support behind the success of an individual. There is a lot of differenciation and discrimination in the name of gender as males and females. Nevertheless this difference do exist in nature from time immemorial.
A female draws out various characteristics which is different from that of a male, varying from factors such as physical, mental. biological and reproductive. These are inborn and inbuilt right from the time a mother concieves a female child.
Womanhood is the period in a females life after she has passed through childhood and adolescence, generally around the age 18. Women have three very important physiological functions totally absent in men--menstruation, pregnancy, and lactation.Each of these mechanisms influences the behavioural patterns of a female greatly. Another such noticable factor could be psycological.
Women prefer to share and care more, she would discuss and figure out a solution for a problem which they face by discussing it with her friends. She is more emotionally depended and possess aa emotional mind when compared to that of men. But men on the other hand seem to be independent and keep things more to themselves. But unfortunately, women are more prone to different types of depressions due to their emotional weakness. Communication skills and emotional intelligence are found to be better in females. They tend to be more group-oriented.
God has created women in such a way that, she can take her generation forward by giving birth to new offsprings. The ideal time to start learning about pregnancy is not when a woman is already pregnant but much before that. For a woman, pregnancy planning means learning everything she can about how her own health and that of her baby can be optimized. She is capable of conceiving from the time she attains puberty till the time of menopause.
A female body is also highly prone to diseases too due to its sensitive features or even due to malnutrition which leads to less immunity. Many such diseases are gallstones, migraine headaches,
osteoporosis, rheumatoid arthritis, high blood pressure(hypertension) etc.
Women with Osteoporosis have weak bones which tend to break. Osteoporosis in the vertebrae can cause serious problems for women. A fracture in this area occurs from day-to-day activities like climbing stairs, lifting objects, or bending forward.
Research has also revealed the genetic and molecular basis of a number of gender-based differences in health and disease, some of which are related to genotype — XX in the female and XY in the male. Due to such less immune resistance women have got higher chances of developing Autoimmune diseases. Autoimmune diseases can affect virtually every site in the body.
Autoimmune diseases affect approximately 8% of the population, 78% of whom are women. It is still unkown as to what reasons are there behind such a prevalence. One of the factors behind it could be genetic as it can be passed on from a mother to her offspring.

Wednesday 3 January 2018

Talak-e-biddat (Instant Divorce)

Triple talaq is a 1,400 year-old practice among Sunni Muslims. It is "manifestly arbitrary" and allows a man to "break down (a) marriage whimsically and capriciously”.
Triple talaq as a practice is not mentioned in the Quran or Sharia law. It is also largely disapproved by Muslim legal scholars. Several Islamic countries, including Pakistan and Bangladesh, have banned it, although it is technically legal in Sunni Islamic jurisprudence. Triple talaq, in Islamic law, is based upon the belief that the husband has the right to reject or dismiss his wife with good grounds. If the wife wants to end her marriage and her husband does not agree to give a talaq, she has to comply with proceedings under the Dissolution of the Muslim Marriages Act. As far as Sharia is concerned she needs to obtain a release from the marriage bond by the husband agreeing to such, by granting a Khula, or if he refuses to seek the dissolution of the marriage (faskh) by order of a sharia court judge (qazi).
Triple talaq is a form of divorce that was practised in India, whereby a Muslim man could legally divorce his wife by pronouncing talaq (the Arabic word for divorce) three times. The pronouncement could be oral or written, or, in recent times, delivered by electronic means such as telephone, SMS, email or social media. The man did not need to cite any cause for the divorce and the wife need not have been present at the time of pronouncement. After a period of iddat, during which it was ascertained whether the wife is pregnant, the divorce became irrevocable. In the recommended practice, a waiting period was required before each pronouncement of talaq, during which reconciliation was attempted. However, it had become common to make all three pronouncements in one sitting. While the practice was frowned upon, it was not prohibited. A divorced woman could not remarry her divorced husband unless she first married another man, a practice called nikah halala. Until she remarried, she retained the custody of male toddlers and prepubescent female children. Beyond those restrictions, the children came under the guardianship of the father.
The bench that heard the controversial Triple talaq case in 2017 was made up of multifaith members. The five judges from five different communities are Chief Justice JS Khehar, a Sikh, Justices Kurian Joseph a Christian, RF Nariman a Parsi, UU Lalit a Hindu and Abdul Nazeer a Muslim. The Supreme Court has to examine whether Triple talaq has the protection of the constitution—if this practice is safeguarded by Article 25(1) in the constitution that guarantees all the fundamental right to “profess, practice and propagate religion”. The Court wants to establish whether or not Triple talaq is an essential feature of Islamic belief and practice. In a 397-page ruling, though two judges upheld validity of Instant triple talaq (talaq-e-biddat), the three other judges held that it was unconstitutional, thus barring the practice by 3–2 majority. One judge argued that instant triple talaq violated Islamic law. The bench asked the central government to promulgate legislation within six months to govern marriage and divorce in the Muslim community.The court said that until the government formulates a law regarding instant triple talaq, there would be an injunction against husbands pronouncing Instant triple talaq on their wives.

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