Can you tell If You are Cumming, Ejaculating, Squirting or Orgasming?

Cumming - The Mind: To cum is to release your built-up mental pleasures and desires. Cumming occurs with the cooperation of your mind. If you are distracted, you will experience dryness or lack of desire which will block you from cumming or generating arousal fluids. Arousal fluids are secretions produced by the Bartholin glands located near your labia genetically placed to help the penis enter the vaginal opening with ease and comfort to reproduce. The reason why foreplay is so necessary. The secretions released from your vaginal canal are mixed with your cervical fluids, causing the consistency of cum to vary per woman. Sometimes it's thick, opal, and creamy; other times, it may be silky, clear, and smooth. It all depends on which phase of your menstrual cycle. Your cum carries a genetic imprint that is physically and energetically passed from your secretions into your partner's body. This is why you see some couples who begin to look alike, act alike, or even start to think alike. If you are getting nutted in, you are taking in bits and pieces of their DNA. You do not need an emotional or spiritual connection to cum. All you need is physical attraction, stimulation to your clitoris or vulva, and erotic thoughts. The reason why toys are so popular. However, the stronger your mental focus at that moment and physical arousal toward your partner, the stronger and more beautiful your cum is going to be, slippery or creamy magic flowing out of you like water. When you cum, it creates a clinginess within us because it’s a great sensation and we want to hold on to things that make us feel good ultimately leading to greediness. All vibrations that keep us repeatedly in unhealthy relationships. So choose your partners wisely, fight harder to learn to love one another, figure out ways to trust deeper and allow the beauty in you to see the beauty in them. If you are giving head to a vulva and feel juices coming from the clitoris, you are either feeling ejaculation or squirt from the urethra or Skene's or cum from the vaginal opening. There is no hole on the clit. Squirting - The Desire Squirt is the expulsion of diluted urine and can contain ejaculate fluid. It is produced in the bladder and Skene's Gland and released through the urethral opening. When examined, the liquid contains traces of urea and creatinine – (the key chemical element of pee). That’s why It is wise to pee before sex also, to clear the passageway of pee and allow your body to relax enough to squirt naturally. It must not get confused with any pee that flows out due to incontinence issues. Squirting is usually an involuntary act, not something you force out. It is generally colorless and odorless. You will see its effects afterward on your sheets or feel the splashes of it during sexual intercourse. Squirt fluid is gathered from the water intake supply that your kidneys have not yet processed. Many people don't realize that urine comes from the blood. When you drink water, it goes into the stomach and then into your intestines. The water is then absorbed across your intestinal walls into your body. That portion of water that goes into your body helps with vaginal juiciness and squirting. The rest ends up being part of the liquid portion of your blood. Your blood consists of red blood cells immersed in water and other components. When it goes to your kidneys, an amount of that liquid in your blood gets filtered out to be reabsorbed by your body, and the rest is sent to your bladder to become urine. So you can tell the difference between urine and squirt by the look, smell, and taste. Squirting feels just like it would if you were holding your pee all day and finally got to relieve yourself. That feeling of relief is what squirting feels like. It can be subtle, or it can be highly sensational. The act of squirting will only be released if your body is relaxed. Too much tension or pressure can prevent you from squirting. The desire comes from your connection to your partner and how safe and grounded you feel with them. If you are focusing too much on squirting, it simply won’t happen. Squirt is released through the urethral opening. All you need is a partner that helps you fully relax, a comfortable environment, confidence, adequate water intake, deep penetration, or focused clitoral attention with the tongue, toy, or finger. During foreplay and anticipation, your sexual desire is created by your sexual energy; this nectar is secreted from the Skene’s Gland. Female Ejaculation - The Body When the body gets fully aroused, it creates a wild chemical cocktail of many hormones. The love hormone, the happy hormone, fight or flight, you name it. Those hormones produce your ejaculate fluid. When the nectar is examined, it contains the prostate-specific antigen found in the cum of male semen and produced in the Skene's gland (some may call the female prostate). To generate and release ejaculate fluid, your sacral chakra must be unblocked and thriving. Meaning you must be comfortable within the full spectrum of your sexuality, utilize your creativity, dance more freely, and connect with your pleasure more. Allow your body to build up the ejaculate fluid by nurturing and loving your body and loving from your heart, not overly critical of yourself or others. That’s why female ejaculate nectar tends to be sweet because she has reached a divine level within. Female ejaculate is released through the urethral opening. Some women have an additional outlet connected to the Skene’s Gland located slightly below their urethral opening. Female ejaculate trickles out warm fluid, and the release feels similar to squirting. You can squirt and ejaculate simultaneously, but you can certainly feel the difference when done separately. Female Ejaculation + Cumming = Leaking - The Comfort When you ejaculate and cum at the same time you experience a beautiful, constant, slow leak that flows out harmoniously. The feeling is relaxing, almost like all the air in your body is being deflated and your body is sinking into the ground beneath you. The leaking concoction is warm and flows like aloe vera gel. The combo of ejaculating and cumming at the same time is like hitting multiple buttons on a controller for a Mortal Combat move, you unlock “special moves”, a special concoction created by your intimate encounter. Leaking is released through your vaginal opening, urethral opening and Skene’s Gland opening. Squirting + Ejaculation = Gushing - The Excitement The cool thing about the woman’s body is that it is capable of all things, which means we can squirt and ejaculate at the same time! Just a quick reminder though. SQUIRT IS NOT EJACULATION. However your ejaculation can squirt! When you do both at the same time it creates a gushing feeling during arousal. Your bladder will fill up with the supply you created through your water intake; and your Skene's gland is built up with an ejaculate fluid containing PSA antigens. When gushing during sex the squirt is going to contain the diluted fluid from your bladder containing urea and creatine and it's going to combine like a hurricane by crashing into your ejaculate fluid. Both fluids are trying to escape out of the tiny urethral opening causing an intense gush. Since it all passes through the urethra where urine also passes through, it can contain larger traces of urea and creatinine. You must have a level of excitement in order to gush. Excitement as in fully mentally, physically, and emotionally aroused. You are relaxed, you feel safe, and you are really into your partner physically, mentally, and spiritually. This allows your body to open up more and more. The more your body surrenders the closer you get to the Big O. Gushing is released like a broken fire hydrant through the urethral opening. However if you are cumming at the same time that is the Ultimate Gush that will have arousal fluids splashing from out of the vaginal opening. Orgasm/Climax - The Heart An orgasm is a climax you reach from heightened sexual excitement. By relaxing your body entirely and enjoying the intimate journey, you build up the orgasmic energy within your body needed to climax. If your focus is on the destination, the finale, and the nut, you're not being present enough to build up the sexual excitement. An orgasm happens when you both are harmoniously aligned at the moment of intimacy, blocking out everything but pleasure. During an orgasm, you may feel high as if on psychedelics; you may experience shaking, quivering, stomach cramping, crying, or hysterical laughter. Orgasms can be weak or strong, wavy or smooth, noticeable or subtle. The orgasm is experienced energetically and doesn't necessarily have to be released outside of the body. It is separate from cumming, although you can cum simultaneously with the orgasm. You do not need stimulation to orgasm. You can have a mental, clitoral, vaginal, or erogenous zone orgasm (amongst many more). A loving relationship with yourself is also vital. When you nurture yourself properly, you release the energy to attract a loving partner to do the same. When you are being stimulated to your liking, you open up more, relaxing your body. This will allow you the opportunity to reach heightened levels of bliss. Orgasm + Cumming = Releasing - The Soul When you orgasm and cum at the same time you have connected with your partner on a spiritual level and that energetic exchange allows you to release emotions through your climax, manifest, give energy to your partner, take energy from your partner, communicate telepathically, feel each other’s energy and get rid of pent up stress. A saying I just made up right now is “Cumming is a state of doing while releasing is a state of being.” When you can just be, and not overthink, not be self critical, not wonder, not wish, just lie back and release control you’ll be able to release through your cum. Releasing is released through your vaginal opening and energetically. Orgasm + Cumming + Ejaculation = Ultimate Orgasm - The Complete Surrender When you have surrendered completely into trust of your partner, trust in your Highest Self, trust in The Universe, trust in God then you have made the complete surrender. When you have gotten there within, you can create a transcendent experience during intimacy bringing you higher in the levels of Consciousness. The complete surrender happens cosmically when two people become one in the present moment by not allowing past conditioning or trauma to impact them in that moment. Their mind is clear and concentrated. They aren’t sexually mixing with low vibrational energies. They share the same desires. Then you basically create magic at this point.

About Female Ejaculation

Female ejaculation has something of a mythical reputation. Is famale ejaculation normal like male ejaculation, Yes it and why not? Female can arouse themselves and can ejaculate like males. Vaginal ejaculation is a secretion of fluid from the Skene's glands which is often called as "the vaginal prostrate" and the squirting is the larger expulsion of of fluid from the bladder which resembles the urine.

Is the squirting is the same as urination? In the first major research researchers found urea, creatinine and uric acid concentrations in the squirting fluid which are all major components of the urine but at the same time vaginal ejaculation is milky fluid and it was not of the same components as of urine. Therefore they were of the view that Squir fluid and Vaginal Ejaculation are two different fluids. 

So, Vaginal ejaculated fluid is a thick, whitish fluid resembling diluted milk that contains some of the same components as semen like PSA and prostatic acid phosphatase. Some researchers found that female ejaculation comes from the bladder while some ladies or volunteers report that sensation of ejaculation is akin to urinating for them.

Research show that only 10% to 30% of women experience involuntary ejaculation, according to the International Society for Sexual Medicine. Because they don't know how this expulsion is triggered, it's impossible to know at this time whether some women may be more or less prone to experience it, With that said, it looks like G-spot stimulation is commonly associated with vaginal ejaculation or squirting so if you’re interested in experimenting, that is a good place to start.

Lastly, your pleasure in bed definitely doesn't depend on your ability to ejaculate or not.

The Mystery of Female Orgasm!!

There is a lot of discussions and censorship with anything relating to female and especially female sexuality all over the globe. As it may be known to only ladies that female orgasm is so lovely that every lady want to get it during the foreplay or during intimation and it has a very good impact on their mental, physical and sexual health. But there is a huge discussion on the male orgasm and some shy discussion on female orgasm... Why?

In the older days or a lots of years ago,  women who were prone to emotional outbursts were diagnosed with “Hysteria”, and were often treated by the doctor, essentially administering an orgasm to the patient. At that It was one of the reason for the discovery of old version of primitive vibrator which was helpful in the treatment of hysteria. That vibrator was developed as a electric massager which can be used to massage other areas of body in addition to treating hysteria or manual orgasm.

Let’s define what an orgasm is. An orgasm is the release of tension at the height of sexual response. It is when you reach peak arousal and then experience a release. This is followed by contractions of the pelvic floor. It can feel pleasurable, just fine, or like a sneeze. No two orgasms are exactly alike! Multiple orgasms are orgasms that happen in succession—typically within a few seconds or minutes of each other. This all comes back to those juicy little nerve-fibers.
Sex should be about pleasure—the journey, rather than the destination. Sex should be about pleasure—the journey, rather than the destination. Whether it leads to one orgasm, multiple orgasms, or zero orgasms, whatever feels good to you is perfectly fabulous.

The other side of the coin is interesting. The fact that males have the proper right to own their sexuality and their sexual needs but what about females? We all know that the female orgasm is achievable through masturbation and solo play, but why it is so difficult to achieve during intercourse? To answer this question, all of us are dumb becouse in our society female arousal is not prioritized. Many girls or women have been brought up with the notion that masturbation is dirty and good girls must not indulge in it and also not in social media but we believe that everyone has a right to their bodies and that sexual health should be prioritized.

Masturbation is great for female health

 Masturbation doesn’t have to lead to orgasm. But if you’re in the mood and want that endorphin rush, there are a few things you can do to help your body achieve the Big O (orgasm):

• Set the mood: The setting can sometimes make a big difference in whether or not you’ll have a good solo session. Think about turning down the lights and listening to relaxing music to get the mood going.
• Add some lubricant: When you’re aroused, your body self-lubricates, making masturbation a much smoother and pleasurable experience. But sometimes, that may not be enough (or it may not happen at all!). So keep a tube of lubricant on hand to increase your pleasure.
• Let your mind wander: It may go without saying, but you can turn yourself on by simply thinking about that hottie you met last week. Let your mind fantasize about people or situations that send tingles down your spine.
• Take your time: You don’t have to rush masturbation. Play around with techniques and take your time to enjoy all of the sensations you’re feeling throughout your body.
• Explore erogenous zones: Playing with your erogenous zones — think your nipples, ears, or thighs — can shoot sparks of pleasure throughout your body.
• Consider erotica or pornography: It’s fun to let your mind wander, but you don’t always have to use your imagination. If you want to turn up the heat, watch a sexy video.

If you want to explore your clitoris

The visible part of the clitoris is a pearl-sized organ, often covered by a hood, that’s found at the top of your vulva where the two inner lips meet. The glans of the clitoris is about the size of a pearl/pea, but the structure itself is much more complex and extensive.
Your clitoris is packed with thousands of nerve endings, making it the most sensitive part of your genitals. That’s why most people with a vagina experience orgasm by stimulating their clitoris. 

Massage the fleshy area on the top of your pubic bone, then run your fingers along the outer the outer and inner lips of your vulva. Start rubbing the clitoris through the hood. Find the rhythm that makes you feel good. Move your fingers faster and harder once in mood and clitoris becomes wet. Intensify the feeling and try to get the orgasm.

Despite common myths, most ladies or especially teenaged girls have a hard time climaxing with vaginal stimulation. That doesn’t mean it can’t be fun, though! Penetrating your vagina with your fingers can bring you immense pleasure, even if you don’t orgasm. But if you want to see stars, experiment with stimulating your G-spot — a pleasure point on your vaginal wall — with consistent, heavy pressure. First massage your vaginal opening, insert your fingers slowly and move them in a circular motion or on out motion. Then you can increase the speed and pressure as the good vibrations begin to build. You may feel an explosive orgasm.
The reflection is a great way to discover your body and what turns you on.
Sit in front of a full-length mirror with a big tube of lube. Pour the lube all over your body — your breasts, belly, inner thighs, and vulva — and start sliding your hands over these erogenous zones.
Pinch, squeeze, pull, tug, rub — do whatever feels good and pay attention to what gets you hot and bothered.
Masturbation is a fun, sexy, and safe way to explore your desires and learn what turns you on. Plus, there are so many health benefits to self-pleasure (Reduced stress! Better sleep! Sexual release!) that there’s no reason not to sneak in some pleasure every day.

Sexual Attraction and Orientation

As people pass from childhood into their teen years and beyond, their bodies develop and change. So do their emotions and feelings.

Adolescence Is a Time of Change

During the teen years, the hormonal and physical changes of puberty usually mean people start noticing an increase in sexual feelings. It's common to wonder and sometimes worry about new sexual feelings.

It takes time for many people to understand who they are and who they're becoming. Part of that involves better understanding of their own sexual feelings and who they are attracted to.

What Is Sexual Orientation?

Sexual orientation is the emotional, romantic, or sexual attraction that a person feels toward another person. There are several types of sexual orientation; for example:

• Heterosexual. People who are heterosexual are romantically and physically attracted to members of the opposite sex: Heterosexual males are attracted to females, and heterosexual females are attracted to males. Heterosexuals are sometimes called "straight."
• Homosexual. People who are homosexual are romantically and physically attracted to people of the same sex: Females who are attracted to other females are lesbian; males who are attracted to other males are often known as gay. (The term gay is sometimes used to describe homosexual individuals of either sex.)
• Bisexual. People who are bisexual are romantically and physically attracted to members of both sexes.
• Asexual. People who are asexual may not be interested in sex, but they still feel emotionally close to other people.

During the teen years, people often find themselves having sexual thoughts and attractions. For some, these feelings and thoughts can be intense and seem confusing. That can be especially true for people who have romantic or sexual thoughts about someone who is the same sex they are. "What does that mean," they might think. "Am I gay?"

Being interested in someone of the same sex does not necessarily mean that a person is gay — just as being interested in someone of the opposite sex doesn't mean a person is straight. It's common for teens to be attracted to or have sexual thoughts about people of the same sex and the opposite sex. It's one way of sorting through emerging sexual feelings.

Some people might go beyond just thinking about it and experiment with sexual experiences with people of their own sex or of the opposite sex. These experiences, by themselves, do not necessarily mean that a person is gay or straight.

The Importance of Talking

For people of all sexual orientations, learning about sex and relationships can be difficult. It can help to talk to someone about the confusing feelings that go with growing up — whether that someone is a parent or other family member, a close friend or sibling, or a school counselor.

It's not always easy to find somebody to talk to. But many people find that confiding in someone they trust (even if they're not completely sure how that person will react) turns out to be a positive experience.

In many communities, youth groups can provide opportunities for LGBT teens to talk to others who are facing similar issues. Psychologists, psychiatrists, family doctors, and trained counselors can help them cope — confidentially and privately — with the difficult feelings that go with their developing sexuality. They also help people find ways to deal with any peer pressure, harassment, and bullying they might face.

Whether gay, straight, bisexual, or just not sure, almost everyone has questions about physically maturing and about sexual health — like if certain body changes are "normal," what's the right way to behave, or how to avoid sexually transmitted infections (STIs). It's important to find a doctor, nurse, counselor, or other knowledgeable adult to be able to discuss these issues with.

Is Masturbation Healthy?

Lots of people masturbate! Even if they don't talk about it, it’s common for people of any gender or age to do it. Even before puberty, children sometimes discover that touching their genitals feels good. If you have kids and notice them touching their genitals, let them know that masturbating is completely normal, but something they should do in private.

People masturbate for different reasons — it helps them relax, they want to understand their body better, they want to release sexual tension, or their partner isn’t around. But most people masturbate because it feels good. Many people think that masturbation is only something you do when you don’t have a sex partner. But both single people and people in relationships masturbate.  

Some people masturbate often, others rarely, and some people don’t masturbate at all. Different people masturbate in different ways, for different reasons. Masturbation is a totally personal decision, and there’s no “normal” way to go about it.

You may have heard some crazy things about masturbation being bad for you, like it makes you grow hair in weird places; it causes infertility; it shrinks your genitals; or once you start masturbating you’ll become addicted to it. None of that’s true. Masturbation isn’t unhealthy or bad for you at all. Masturbation can actually be good for your health, both mentally and physically. And it’s pretty much the safest sex out there.

Is it OK to masturbate if you’re in a relationship?

Definitely. Lots of people in relationships masturbate. Masturbating when you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean your partner isn’t satisfying you. It’s a great way to figure out what you like and what makes you have an orgasm. Then you can show or tell your partner what feels good. Talking about sex with your partner can make it more fun and can even make your relationship stronger. Some people masturbate at the same time as their partner. It’s a way to be sexual together without having any risk of STDs or pregnancy.

Being Women

“Behind every successful man there is a woman”. Not only in the case of a man but this saying stands for the functioning of the whole world. She is said to be the ultimate strength and support behind the success of an individual. There is a lot of differenciation and discrimination in the name of gender as males and females. Nevertheless this difference do exist in nature from time immemorial.
A female draws out various characteristics which is different from that of a male, varying from factors such as physical, mental. biological and reproductive. These are inborn and inbuilt right from the time a mother concieves a female child.
Womanhood is the period in a females life after she has passed through childhood and adolescence, generally around the age 18. Women have three very important physiological functions totally absent in men--menstruation, pregnancy, and lactation.Each of these mechanisms influences the behavioural patterns of a female greatly. Another such noticable factor could be psycological.
Women prefer to share and care more, she would discuss and figure out a solution for a problem which they face by discussing it with her friends. She is more emotionally depended and possess aa emotional mind when compared to that of men. But men on the other hand seem to be independent and keep things more to themselves. But unfortunately, women are more prone to different types of depressions due to their emotional weakness. Communication skills and emotional intelligence are found to be better in females. They tend to be more group-oriented.
God has created women in such a way that, she can take her generation forward by giving birth to new offsprings. The ideal time to start learning about pregnancy is not when a woman is already pregnant but much before that. For a woman, pregnancy planning means learning everything she can about how her own health and that of her baby can be optimized. She is capable of conceiving from the time she attains puberty till the time of menopause.
A female body is also highly prone to diseases too due to its sensitive features or even due to malnutrition which leads to less immunity. Many such diseases are gallstones, migraine headaches,
osteoporosis, rheumatoid arthritis, high blood pressure(hypertension) etc.
Women with Osteoporosis have weak bones which tend to break. Osteoporosis in the vertebrae can cause serious problems for women. A fracture in this area occurs from day-to-day activities like climbing stairs, lifting objects, or bending forward.
Research has also revealed the genetic and molecular basis of a number of gender-based differences in health and disease, some of which are related to genotype — XX in the female and XY in the male. Due to such less immune resistance women have got higher chances of developing Autoimmune diseases. Autoimmune diseases can affect virtually every site in the body.
Autoimmune diseases affect approximately 8% of the population, 78% of whom are women. It is still unkown as to what reasons are there behind such a prevalence. One of the factors behind it could be genetic as it can be passed on from a mother to her offspring.