Can you tell If You are Cumming, Ejaculating, Squirting or Orgasming?

Cumming - The Mind: To cum is to release your built-up mental pleasures and desires. Cumming occurs with the cooperation of your mind. If you are distracted, you will experience dryness or lack of desire which will block you from cumming or generating arousal fluids. Arousal fluids are secretions produced by the Bartholin glands located near your labia genetically placed to help the penis enter the vaginal opening with ease and comfort to reproduce. The reason why foreplay is so necessary. The secretions released from your vaginal canal are mixed with your cervical fluids, causing the consistency of cum to vary per woman. Sometimes it's thick, opal, and creamy; other times, it may be silky, clear, and smooth. It all depends on which phase of your menstrual cycle. Your cum carries a genetic imprint that is physically and energetically passed from your secretions into your partner's body. This is why you see some couples who begin to look alike, act alike, or even start to think alike. If you are getting nutted in, you are taking in bits and pieces of their DNA. You do not need an emotional or spiritual connection to cum. All you need is physical attraction, stimulation to your clitoris or vulva, and erotic thoughts. The reason why toys are so popular. However, the stronger your mental focus at that moment and physical arousal toward your partner, the stronger and more beautiful your cum is going to be, slippery or creamy magic flowing out of you like water. When you cum, it creates a clinginess within us because it’s a great sensation and we want to hold on to things that make us feel good ultimately leading to greediness. All vibrations that keep us repeatedly in unhealthy relationships. So choose your partners wisely, fight harder to learn to love one another, figure out ways to trust deeper and allow the beauty in you to see the beauty in them. If you are giving head to a vulva and feel juices coming from the clitoris, you are either feeling ejaculation or squirt from the urethra or Skene's or cum from the vaginal opening. There is no hole on the clit. Squirting - The Desire Squirt is the expulsion of diluted urine and can contain ejaculate fluid. It is produced in the bladder and Skene's Gland and released through the urethral opening. When examined, the liquid contains traces of urea and creatinine – (the key chemical element of pee). That’s why It is wise to pee before sex also, to clear the passageway of pee and allow your body to relax enough to squirt naturally. It must not get confused with any pee that flows out due to incontinence issues. Squirting is usually an involuntary act, not something you force out. It is generally colorless and odorless. You will see its effects afterward on your sheets or feel the splashes of it during sexual intercourse. Squirt fluid is gathered from the water intake supply that your kidneys have not yet processed. Many people don't realize that urine comes from the blood. When you drink water, it goes into the stomach and then into your intestines. The water is then absorbed across your intestinal walls into your body. That portion of water that goes into your body helps with vaginal juiciness and squirting. The rest ends up being part of the liquid portion of your blood. Your blood consists of red blood cells immersed in water and other components. When it goes to your kidneys, an amount of that liquid in your blood gets filtered out to be reabsorbed by your body, and the rest is sent to your bladder to become urine. So you can tell the difference between urine and squirt by the look, smell, and taste. Squirting feels just like it would if you were holding your pee all day and finally got to relieve yourself. That feeling of relief is what squirting feels like. It can be subtle, or it can be highly sensational. The act of squirting will only be released if your body is relaxed. Too much tension or pressure can prevent you from squirting. The desire comes from your connection to your partner and how safe and grounded you feel with them. If you are focusing too much on squirting, it simply won’t happen. Squirt is released through the urethral opening. All you need is a partner that helps you fully relax, a comfortable environment, confidence, adequate water intake, deep penetration, or focused clitoral attention with the tongue, toy, or finger. During foreplay and anticipation, your sexual desire is created by your sexual energy; this nectar is secreted from the Skene’s Gland. Female Ejaculation - The Body When the body gets fully aroused, it creates a wild chemical cocktail of many hormones. The love hormone, the happy hormone, fight or flight, you name it. Those hormones produce your ejaculate fluid. When the nectar is examined, it contains the prostate-specific antigen found in the cum of male semen and produced in the Skene's gland (some may call the female prostate). To generate and release ejaculate fluid, your sacral chakra must be unblocked and thriving. Meaning you must be comfortable within the full spectrum of your sexuality, utilize your creativity, dance more freely, and connect with your pleasure more. Allow your body to build up the ejaculate fluid by nurturing and loving your body and loving from your heart, not overly critical of yourself or others. That’s why female ejaculate nectar tends to be sweet because she has reached a divine level within. Female ejaculate is released through the urethral opening. Some women have an additional outlet connected to the Skene’s Gland located slightly below their urethral opening. Female ejaculate trickles out warm fluid, and the release feels similar to squirting. You can squirt and ejaculate simultaneously, but you can certainly feel the difference when done separately. Female Ejaculation + Cumming = Leaking - The Comfort When you ejaculate and cum at the same time you experience a beautiful, constant, slow leak that flows out harmoniously. The feeling is relaxing, almost like all the air in your body is being deflated and your body is sinking into the ground beneath you. The leaking concoction is warm and flows like aloe vera gel. The combo of ejaculating and cumming at the same time is like hitting multiple buttons on a controller for a Mortal Combat move, you unlock “special moves”, a special concoction created by your intimate encounter. Leaking is released through your vaginal opening, urethral opening and Skene’s Gland opening. Squirting + Ejaculation = Gushing - The Excitement The cool thing about the woman’s body is that it is capable of all things, which means we can squirt and ejaculate at the same time! Just a quick reminder though. SQUIRT IS NOT EJACULATION. However your ejaculation can squirt! When you do both at the same time it creates a gushing feeling during arousal. Your bladder will fill up with the supply you created through your water intake; and your Skene's gland is built up with an ejaculate fluid containing PSA antigens. When gushing during sex the squirt is going to contain the diluted fluid from your bladder containing urea and creatine and it's going to combine like a hurricane by crashing into your ejaculate fluid. Both fluids are trying to escape out of the tiny urethral opening causing an intense gush. Since it all passes through the urethra where urine also passes through, it can contain larger traces of urea and creatinine. You must have a level of excitement in order to gush. Excitement as in fully mentally, physically, and emotionally aroused. You are relaxed, you feel safe, and you are really into your partner physically, mentally, and spiritually. This allows your body to open up more and more. The more your body surrenders the closer you get to the Big O. Gushing is released like a broken fire hydrant through the urethral opening. However if you are cumming at the same time that is the Ultimate Gush that will have arousal fluids splashing from out of the vaginal opening. Orgasm/Climax - The Heart An orgasm is a climax you reach from heightened sexual excitement. By relaxing your body entirely and enjoying the intimate journey, you build up the orgasmic energy within your body needed to climax. If your focus is on the destination, the finale, and the nut, you're not being present enough to build up the sexual excitement. An orgasm happens when you both are harmoniously aligned at the moment of intimacy, blocking out everything but pleasure. During an orgasm, you may feel high as if on psychedelics; you may experience shaking, quivering, stomach cramping, crying, or hysterical laughter. Orgasms can be weak or strong, wavy or smooth, noticeable or subtle. The orgasm is experienced energetically and doesn't necessarily have to be released outside of the body. It is separate from cumming, although you can cum simultaneously with the orgasm. You do not need stimulation to orgasm. You can have a mental, clitoral, vaginal, or erogenous zone orgasm (amongst many more). A loving relationship with yourself is also vital. When you nurture yourself properly, you release the energy to attract a loving partner to do the same. When you are being stimulated to your liking, you open up more, relaxing your body. This will allow you the opportunity to reach heightened levels of bliss. Orgasm + Cumming = Releasing - The Soul When you orgasm and cum at the same time you have connected with your partner on a spiritual level and that energetic exchange allows you to release emotions through your climax, manifest, give energy to your partner, take energy from your partner, communicate telepathically, feel each other’s energy and get rid of pent up stress. A saying I just made up right now is “Cumming is a state of doing while releasing is a state of being.” When you can just be, and not overthink, not be self critical, not wonder, not wish, just lie back and release control you’ll be able to release through your cum. Releasing is released through your vaginal opening and energetically. Orgasm + Cumming + Ejaculation = Ultimate Orgasm - The Complete Surrender When you have surrendered completely into trust of your partner, trust in your Highest Self, trust in The Universe, trust in God then you have made the complete surrender. When you have gotten there within, you can create a transcendent experience during intimacy bringing you higher in the levels of Consciousness. The complete surrender happens cosmically when two people become one in the present moment by not allowing past conditioning or trauma to impact them in that moment. Their mind is clear and concentrated. They aren’t sexually mixing with low vibrational energies. They share the same desires. Then you basically create magic at this point.

About Female Ejaculation

Female ejaculation has something of a mythical reputation. Is famale ejaculation normal like male ejaculation, Yes it and why not? Female can arouse themselves and can ejaculate like males. Vaginal ejaculation is a secretion of fluid from the Skene's glands which is often called as "the vaginal prostrate" and the squirting is the larger expulsion of of fluid from the bladder which resembles the urine.

Is the squirting is the same as urination? In the first major research researchers found urea, creatinine and uric acid concentrations in the squirting fluid which are all major components of the urine but at the same time vaginal ejaculation is milky fluid and it was not of the same components as of urine. Therefore they were of the view that Squir fluid and Vaginal Ejaculation are two different fluids. 

So, Vaginal ejaculated fluid is a thick, whitish fluid resembling diluted milk that contains some of the same components as semen like PSA and prostatic acid phosphatase. Some researchers found that female ejaculation comes from the bladder while some ladies or volunteers report that sensation of ejaculation is akin to urinating for them.

Research show that only 10% to 30% of women experience involuntary ejaculation, according to the International Society for Sexual Medicine. Because they don't know how this expulsion is triggered, it's impossible to know at this time whether some women may be more or less prone to experience it, With that said, it looks like G-spot stimulation is commonly associated with vaginal ejaculation or squirting so if you’re interested in experimenting, that is a good place to start.

Lastly, your pleasure in bed definitely doesn't depend on your ability to ejaculate or not.

The Mystery of Female Orgasm!!

There is a lot of discussions and censorship with anything relating to female and especially female sexuality all over the globe. As it may be known to only ladies that female orgasm is so lovely that every lady want to get it during the foreplay or during intimation and it has a very good impact on their mental, physical and sexual health. But there is a huge discussion on the male orgasm and some shy discussion on female orgasm... Why?

In the older days or a lots of years ago,  women who were prone to emotional outbursts were diagnosed with “Hysteria”, and were often treated by the doctor, essentially administering an orgasm to the patient. At that It was one of the reason for the discovery of old version of primitive vibrator which was helpful in the treatment of hysteria. That vibrator was developed as a electric massager which can be used to massage other areas of body in addition to treating hysteria or manual orgasm.

Let’s define what an orgasm is. An orgasm is the release of tension at the height of sexual response. It is when you reach peak arousal and then experience a release. This is followed by contractions of the pelvic floor. It can feel pleasurable, just fine, or like a sneeze. No two orgasms are exactly alike! Multiple orgasms are orgasms that happen in succession—typically within a few seconds or minutes of each other. This all comes back to those juicy little nerve-fibers.
Sex should be about pleasure—the journey, rather than the destination. Sex should be about pleasure—the journey, rather than the destination. Whether it leads to one orgasm, multiple orgasms, or zero orgasms, whatever feels good to you is perfectly fabulous.

The other side of the coin is interesting. The fact that males have the proper right to own their sexuality and their sexual needs but what about females? We all know that the female orgasm is achievable through masturbation and solo play, but why it is so difficult to achieve during intercourse? To answer this question, all of us are dumb becouse in our society female arousal is not prioritized. Many girls or women have been brought up with the notion that masturbation is dirty and good girls must not indulge in it and also not in social media but we believe that everyone has a right to their bodies and that sexual health should be prioritized.

Masturbation is great for female health

 Masturbation doesn’t have to lead to orgasm. But if you’re in the mood and want that endorphin rush, there are a few things you can do to help your body achieve the Big O (orgasm):

• Set the mood: The setting can sometimes make a big difference in whether or not you’ll have a good solo session. Think about turning down the lights and listening to relaxing music to get the mood going.
• Add some lubricant: When you’re aroused, your body self-lubricates, making masturbation a much smoother and pleasurable experience. But sometimes, that may not be enough (or it may not happen at all!). So keep a tube of lubricant on hand to increase your pleasure.
• Let your mind wander: It may go without saying, but you can turn yourself on by simply thinking about that hottie you met last week. Let your mind fantasize about people or situations that send tingles down your spine.
• Take your time: You don’t have to rush masturbation. Play around with techniques and take your time to enjoy all of the sensations you’re feeling throughout your body.
• Explore erogenous zones: Playing with your erogenous zones — think your nipples, ears, or thighs — can shoot sparks of pleasure throughout your body.
• Consider erotica or pornography: It’s fun to let your mind wander, but you don’t always have to use your imagination. If you want to turn up the heat, watch a sexy video.

If you want to explore your clitoris

The visible part of the clitoris is a pearl-sized organ, often covered by a hood, that’s found at the top of your vulva where the two inner lips meet. The glans of the clitoris is about the size of a pearl/pea, but the structure itself is much more complex and extensive.
Your clitoris is packed with thousands of nerve endings, making it the most sensitive part of your genitals. That’s why most people with a vagina experience orgasm by stimulating their clitoris. 

Massage the fleshy area on the top of your pubic bone, then run your fingers along the outer the outer and inner lips of your vulva. Start rubbing the clitoris through the hood. Find the rhythm that makes you feel good. Move your fingers faster and harder once in mood and clitoris becomes wet. Intensify the feeling and try to get the orgasm.

Despite common myths, most ladies or especially teenaged girls have a hard time climaxing with vaginal stimulation. That doesn’t mean it can’t be fun, though! Penetrating your vagina with your fingers can bring you immense pleasure, even if you don’t orgasm. But if you want to see stars, experiment with stimulating your G-spot — a pleasure point on your vaginal wall — with consistent, heavy pressure. First massage your vaginal opening, insert your fingers slowly and move them in a circular motion or on out motion. Then you can increase the speed and pressure as the good vibrations begin to build. You may feel an explosive orgasm.
The reflection is a great way to discover your body and what turns you on.
Sit in front of a full-length mirror with a big tube of lube. Pour the lube all over your body — your breasts, belly, inner thighs, and vulva — and start sliding your hands over these erogenous zones.
Pinch, squeeze, pull, tug, rub — do whatever feels good and pay attention to what gets you hot and bothered.
Masturbation is a fun, sexy, and safe way to explore your desires and learn what turns you on. Plus, there are so many health benefits to self-pleasure (Reduced stress! Better sleep! Sexual release!) that there’s no reason not to sneak in some pleasure every day.